Don't Kill your first Child

 

 No matter who is the father of this baby and regardless of the circumstances of your pregnancy, this is still your child, genetically linked to you and a forever part of your family history.  It is now your choice to give your baby life or to violently end your baby’s life through an abortion.

Note: when you do, you kill your first-born child.

Around the world, countless women who have aborted their children wish they could turn the clocks back and change that decision to abort.

Abortion has so many pains & regrets here are some:

1. You may become infertile as a result of damage done by the abortion.  Some women experience infection and scarring in the reproductive system that renders them unable to ever again conceive or carry a pregnancy to term.
2. You will feel stabs of pain when you see pregnant women and babies.  They will remind you of the child you aborted.
3. You will have a difficult time bonding in a healthy way with future children, if you are so blessed to have them.  The abortion will always be in your mind and you will wonder if those children will learn that you aborted their sibling.
4. Your relationship with your boyfriend or husband will likely end.  One study showed 90% of relationships end after an abortion.
5. You will face nightmares about your abortion and you will likely engage in self-destructive behaviors such as excess drinking, drug abuse, eating disorders, promiscuity and even suicidal acts in an effort to cover up your pain.
6. Most importantly abortion offends God Exodus 20:13 “thou shalt not kill (Exodus 20:13). And remember, “For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all” James 2:10).

This is only a sampling of the grief that occurs after every abortion.  Teens and young women often go into denial after their abortions and effectively mask the pain for years.  But it will come out someday.

We were all once in our mothers’ wombs. No one had the right to kill us.  In conception a new, unique individual is created. That is a medical and scientific fact.

So I plead with every pregnant woman: please do not kill your unborn child!  To every man who made a woman pregnant: please don’t force her into an abortion.

Every abortion leads to pain, sorrow and/or regret in varying degrees. But no one regrets a child. So please choose life for your baby!